It's all about you. really. Your own brains and standards and perceptions and expections and perspectives and again the world through no one else's eyes but yours.
You're in charge of your own life. The divine put you in charge with a miraculous individuality to go through your endless options.
However people have mind tendencies to judgments. And it won't stop.
Accept it. You know who you are, and how others perceive you is totally nothing of your concerns.